First 1: yes you can. It is a special ability, so as long as you can pay the cost, you can. So when you have exerted the dude, the only option is to stack him. Which is nice...

Second 1: you can reveal the top card, but when it is not during his skirmish, he is not skirmishing, only assigned. But it is a way to look at the top card
Third 1: so no....only for the one he is skirmishing...