I honestly don't know how to be clearer, but I am going to presume that you are a relatively new player with little game-experience.
Most decks are built to double move from site 1 to site 3. You've already said that your deck won't do this which is not a problem in theory; however, as
Stern Words is already cutting down on the likelihood of one or two good Shadow hands over the course of the game, letting your opponent run ahead with an ineffective Shadow is not an effective strategy. Most of the problems stem from the "letting your opponent run ahead with an ineffective Shadow" part.
Not to mention the
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you will be adding for companions on the move and the potential
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more for
Stern Words, not to mention site costs, you are adding a lot of twilight, clogging your own hand, and not double-moving because the key companion in your deck is self-destructing.
-wtk